Posts tagged diversity
On the need to prove myself when I don't need to.

“Can I take lead on this next dep” said a former president of the trial bar. “No” I said. “We are prepped and ready to go.” “Can our group go first” said another. “No” I said. “We have taken the lead since the beginning and will go first.” I even took someone’s associate out into the hall and told her not to ask any more deposition questions as we went around the room. Because she was not doing a good job and undermining our strategy.

That consortium of plaintiff attorneys even sent an emissary over to complain to my partners that I “was out of control” because I shut down the mediation and walked out. It didn’t take an Einstein to realize that I was not destined to be voted most popular ever again. Trial lawyers can hold grudges for a long time and are cliquey as all get out.

The case was tried not for self glory. But because the defendants were not offering enough money to pay for killing, maiming and traumatizing our 50 clients.

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The Year Lani Guinier Came to Town

The year was 2008 and I was president of the state trial lawyers association then called WSTLA (now WSAJ). Every year the president had the honor of presiding over the law day dinner. A formal sit down event filled with lawyers and judges.

I had attended many such events over the years and particularly enjoyed the inspiration offered by the key note speaker. One of my favorites was Morris Dees - of the Southern Poverty Law Center. Who told stories of civilly prosecuting white supremacists and then bankrupting their organizations. He gave me chills.

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Dear Grandma - thoughts on your legacy

Dear Grandma.

I only knew you through my mom who lost you when she was 14. She idolized you. I spent many hours looking at the handful of photos she had of you. Starting with the one where you stood next to Gong Gong on you marriage day. You never smiled in your pictures. I wouldn’t have either if my marriage had been arranged.

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Karen Koehlerwomen, diversity